Romantic or Realistic Man

         I am now in my seventh month pregnancy for my third baby. As a pregnancy woman, I find myself easily get tired, have backache, experience more active baby inside my belly, etc. What is expected by common pregnancy women is more attention given by their husband. So do I. Actually I expect romantic moment every time I say something about what I feel, but what happen in reality is not always as what I expect. 

            When my husband sees me a bit tired, he immediately asks me to stop doing the household and take a rest by sitting or lying in my bed. That is nice. I just feel like a princess. It is so romantic for me. This is my fourth pregnancy for our third child, but he still treats me like a princess. 

          On the contrary in another occasion, when I say I cannot sleep because I had terrible backache, he becomes so realistic. Actually I expect he will offer me to massage my back to ease the pain and build chemistry between us, instead, he just states that my body needs calcium and then he tries to find one. It is disappointing, actually, but that is what he supposes to do. He is a doctor and just treat me as a patient to make me and the baby find. Romantic man is disappear and realistic man is in front of me.

           Recently, the baby inside my uterus is more and more active. When I feel the movement of the baby, I expect he is so excited too, in fact, he is not always excited. Sometimes he is so curious and keeps asking me whether the baby is active or not, but sometimes when I am so excited telling him the baby is doing brigdance inside, his response is not as what I expect, just nodding his head, for example, or saying that it is a good sign, the baby is healthy. There is no consistency become romantic or realistic man. 

             Although this is my fourth pregnancy for the third baby, I still expect my husband treat me like a princess. However, everthing is not always as what I expect. Sometimes he is so romantic; sometimes he is so realistic. When I feel he is so romantic, I enjoy the moment, but when he is so realistic, I try to put my feet in his shoes and do any suggestion from him as my private doctor.