Wrong Uniform Again

         People say "You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time, it is  not a mistake, it is a choice". Well, it is  not true.  I did it,  I made my second mistake that Thursday. It was not my choice, I truly forgot it. I thought that day was Wednesday, in fact, it was Thursday. I made my son wore wrong uniform, what a bad day for him. The uniform for Thursday shoud be white shirt, green short, and a tie, but I prepared and made him wear his sport uniform. I just realized it in front of his kindergarden school. I said to his teacher, "It's my fault, he is wearing sport uniform today. " Then I asked my son, "Is it OK, dear?" He did not answer, but the the teacher said, "It's OK, mom." I saw my son entered the gate of the school and met his friends, and I went to campus with full of regret in  my heart. What a fool morning, I promise myself to be more aware of the day. 

Romantic or Realistic Man

         I am now in my seventh month pregnancy for my third baby. As a pregnancy woman, I find myself easily get tired, have backache, experience more active baby inside my belly, etc. What is expected by common pregnancy women is more attention given by their husband. So do I. Actually I expect romantic moment every time I say something about what I feel, but what happen in reality is not always as what I expect. 

            When my husband sees me a bit tired, he immediately asks me to stop doing the household and take a rest by sitting or lying in my bed. That is nice. I just feel like a princess. It is so romantic for me. This is my fourth pregnancy for our third child, but he still treats me like a princess. 

          On the contrary in another occasion, when I say I cannot sleep because I had terrible backache, he becomes so realistic. Actually I expect he will offer me to massage my back to ease the pain and build chemistry between us, instead, he just states that my body needs calcium and then he tries to find one. It is disappointing, actually, but that is what he supposes to do. He is a doctor and just treat me as a patient to make me and the baby find. Romantic man is disappear and realistic man is in front of me.

           Recently, the baby inside my uterus is more and more active. When I feel the movement of the baby, I expect he is so excited too, in fact, he is not always excited. Sometimes he is so curious and keeps asking me whether the baby is active or not, but sometimes when I am so excited telling him the baby is doing brigdance inside, his response is not as what I expect, just nodding his head, for example, or saying that it is a good sign, the baby is healthy. There is no consistency become romantic or realistic man. 

             Although this is my fourth pregnancy for the third baby, I still expect my husband treat me like a princess. However, everthing is not always as what I expect. Sometimes he is so romantic; sometimes he is so realistic. When I feel he is so romantic, I enjoy the moment, but when he is so realistic, I try to put my feet in his shoes and do any suggestion from him as my private doctor.

                

                

Two Years Break

Two Years Break

This is the first time I write again in this blog after two years absence. Whaaattttt??? two years? I was wondering what I have done in this two years. I plan to write more often from now. Hopefully I can manage my time well. Cheers