When
I was taking master degree, I found myself became closer to three young women. We often shared and discussed theory,
knowledge, and information, and also helped each other in any situation. After
having a long discussion, we agreed to name our group ‘The Ministers’. It was
just for fun, actually. It had nothing to do with political issue or the
ministers of president in this country. It meant each of us became the ‘expert’
among us who knew better about particular thing. The Ministers consisted of
Education Minister, Information and Communication Minister, Fashion Minister,
and Health Minister.
The
first minister is Education Minister. She is IGA Lokita Purnamika Utami. She
was the one who always finished the project or assignment earliest. Once she
got an assignment or project, she would make it as soon as possible. When the
others started to think about it, she would say “I have done, I just need to
print it out.” It could motivate us to do the assignment. She was the leader of
the group. She was not chosen; instead, automatically her leadership aura led
us in any moment. When we discussed something and had different ideas, she was
the one who ended the discussion and took decision. Sometimes we enjoyed it,
but sometimes we just followed her because we were fed up to do more
discussion.
The
second minister is Information and Communication Minister. Her name is Kadek
Sonia Piscayanti. She has good network and knows many people well. She was the
one who was mostly in charge to call or text the lecturers, for example to
confirm about lecturer’s attendance or projects. The leader of the class or korti was very glad to let her do that. Besides, she likes to share current news she
has got. When she says something or tells a story or a gossip, she always tells
it dramatically and full of expression so that she can make us become
emotional, melancholic, enthusiastic, excited, or others. A simple and
uninteresting story can be a fantastic story if the story is told by her.
The
third minister focuses so much on the appearance, starting from hair, make up,
clothes, to shoes. That was why she was nominated as Fashion Minister. This
beautiful woman is Nyoman Karina Wedhanti. Our togetherness make us realize
that she dresses up because she really likes herself to be beautiful, only
that, not to attract men’s attention. Sometimes people have different and wrong
perception about her, but she has never cared.
She is easy going person and never takes it into account. She said to us
that it is impossible to manage everyone’s perception, but at least, they pay
attention to her. She is beautiful, easy going, and very considerate. She does
not want to be the most beautiful of all and hope the other women look ugly.
Many times in my life, she protests me about my make up and she cannot stand to
take her beauty case and become my make up artist. If I refuse, she will
directly say “Keep silent! Keep still! I want to make up you ‘ala me’.” I can only let her satisfy
herself.
Last
but not least minister is Health minister. That was me. I was nominated as the
Health Minister because they thought I was health freak. Sometimes they thought
I was exaggerated and then they said “Don’t worry!”, “take it easy!”, “it will
not kill you!” or “it will not harm you!” They did not like me when I acted too
much, but they love me in other way. When we were together and they needed
something related to logistic stuffs, they knew where to go. For example, when
they were thirsty or hungry, whey would come to me because everyday I usually
brought mineral water, bread or cookies, apples, and sometimes lunch box. Also,
I always prepared myself with tissue and hand sanitizer. That was why they said
that I brought anything in my bag except magic jar.
Today
we are not as close as the time when we were taking our master degree. We go
back to our office, deal with tight schedule to teach and supervise our
students. For me, it was great experience together with those young women and
to be a part of ‘The Ministers’.
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